Do you need a crochet club? Would you enjoy having a group of crocheters (and maybe other handcrafters) to meet with once a month or so to share your love of yarn and crochet? How about having a crochet ‘expert’ at your elbow while you attempt to learn a new stitch or follow a difficult pattern? Wouldn’t it be nice to have at least a couple of people who would oooh and aah over your latest crochet creation – who actually recognize the amount of time and energy that went into the production of a baby afghan or a sweater? I would. I did. And, I did something about it!
I’ve written about how to start a local crochet club before. You can read that article here. But, today, I want to tell you more about the benefit of having this local gathering and perhaps encourage other crocheters to reach out to other crocheters and those who would like to learn to crochet to keep our wonderful art form alive and growing.
So, this is how it goes. Once a month, our local group, the St. Louis Crochet Club, meets at a local yarn shop (Hearthstone Knits) which is warm, welcoming, and very crochet friendly. We meet from 7 to 9 PM the third Wednesday of each month, although we change the week from time to time, depending on holidays and the shop owner’s needs. Since the group began almost 15 years ago, I have missed only a handful of meetings. Since I was the one who put out the call for the first gathering, I am the unofficial chairperson/president/facilitator. I wasn’t elected but I have sent out most of the meeting reminders and that’s about all I am required to do. I used to take notes on all the Show ‘n Tell and ask someone else (usually Ronnie) to take pictures for me. No, you don’t want to see any pictures taken by me!
There are no requirements to join or leave our group. We charge no dues, receive no pressure from the hosting LYS to spend money there (although we do find wonderful yarns and are often offered special sales). To become a member, you just show up. After a couple months, you’re a long-timer and everyone looks forward to seeing you. There were three of us at our first gathering and two of those (DJ and I) remain active with the group. Our membership grows and shrinks, but we typically have 8-10 people at the monthly meetings. We host an annual Christmas in July party – but have abandoned the notion of making and giving gifts to each other as we are all busy in our daily lives and are kept occupied with all the crochet we are asked (or want to) make for others in our lives.
Among our members is no ‘professional’ crocheter, but we do have experts. Ronnie can figure out or correct any pattern. She has such a knack at that! DJ is the queen of crocheting without a pattern, often making skirts, sweaters, and baby things from the patterns she creates in her head. Rita is the queen of kool-aid dyeing and sock knitting. Georgia, the shop owner, is mainly a knitter, and is a published knit designer. But, she is also a masterful crocheter with her cutie-pie granddaughter being the main recipient of her crochet endeavors. Joan is also mainly a knitter, making bundles of socks for everyone in her life, and crocheting the occasional single crochet ripple afghan which would drive me insane! She is also our main thread and yarn de-tangler. Valli is a masterful crocheter and works up custom fitted socks for herself. She is also the queen of the swatch! She has created a number of unique stitches and shares her expertise with all of us in the form of her numerous swatches. That’s Valli in the picture up top here, showing us one of her lovely shawls. But, Cathy is the queen of shawls. While she crochets other things, she always pulls 2 or 3 completed shawls out of her bag for Show ‘n Tell. (And, don’t get me started on her Pecan Brittle or Rita’s Potato Chip Cookies!) Mandy is our resident expert on fibers and other fiber arts. She knits, crochets, weaves, quilts and does I don’t know what all as she works towards her Master’s Degree in Textiles. Her work is always exquisite.
Every other member or visitor to our little crochet circle brings a unique talent. Occasionally around our circle you’ll find Melinda who will be crocheting another Strawberry Shortcake design for her daughters, Marty and her teen daughter Mary who works up oodles of wristlets and other things for her friends. Marty is a true artist in other media also, creating amazing flowers from plastic bags. Susan makes lots of afghans. Jana is always starting something new – in knit or crochet – and brings her special wit to our group. I’m sure I’m forgetting several people. My apologies in advance. May that person feel free to post her name and expertise in the Comments section below.
Other members have left us for one reason or another. No hard feelings. Wednesday is a difficult evening for some. Distance can put a damper on things. I’m sure there are other reasons too. We miss most of those crocheters but their chairs have been filled by other people we are delighted to meet and get to know. When a group is open and welcoming, few people have difficulty fitting in. We value each other individually and appreciate what each person brings, literally, to the table. We ask for advise on yarns, color choices, difficulty levels, etc. We encourage each other over difficult spots in crochet and in life. We rejoice on new family additions because we get to buy more yarn to make goodies for them! There is just no downside to that.
Well. What are you waiting for? Make a few phone calls to find a venue – a church, coffee shop, library, or your front room. Email a few crocheters or crochet-wannabies to join you for tea and crochet one afternoon. You have nothing to lose and you may just gather yourself a room full of new friends. I did!
PS: For further encouragement, check back over my last several years of blog posts to see the pictures of Show ‘n Tell our members have produced. That’s the best part of each meeting.
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dj says
Gee I feel famous being mentioned [queen of patterns in my head, very generous!] in your blog.
Anyone sitting on the fence about starting a group? Grab a friend and get to crocheting, you’ll be glad you did!
Donna H says
This is a great article! I love your idea about having a show and tell. I’ve written a similar article about how to start a knitting group on my blog at http://purl3agony.hubpages.com/hub/How-to-Start-a-Knitting-Group-in-Your-Local-Area
I really enjoy my local knit and crochet group and encourage everyone to find or start a group in their community!
Sheri *¿* says
I’m missing a couple of things in my area. Noone does any type of crocheting or knitting; 2) No LYS’s here. We’d have to meet at a home. Good read with my morning coffee. Thanks again S. *¿*
Melissa says
I’m sure there is no one in my area to start a crochet club with, most are either too busy or too broke to start one or join one. I have tried by advertising, in local papers etc, but no response. There is a VA Crochet/Knit Blanket group but I for one do not like to do full sized afghans lol I do do Lap-Ghans though.
Collette Griffith says
I especially enjoyed this article–I began a crochet class (now a club!) over 3 years ago, at our local Senior Center. We have 23 members, and normally, like you, have from 8 to 13 people attending every Monday morning, from 9:00 to 11:00. The ages of our members range from 23 to 92!! The 92 year old is the most active member, turning in 1 or 2 prayer shawls, or afghans every week! In the time we’ve been crocheting as a group, we’ve donated over 1,250 hats to various hospitals and/or charity groups, over 70 prayer shawls to our local Hospice, and over 150 afghans to several Veterans’ hospitals. As you can see, I’m very proud of my “Girls”! And we have such a good time together! We’re VERY blessed!!
jd wolfe says
Collette,
You prove my point! Thanks for sharing your story.
jd
jd wolfe says
Melissa,
Does the Va Crochet/Knit group take lapghans or babyghans? I bet they do. You might enjoy stitching and chatting with them while they make their full sized blankets. I bet they’d be happy to have you!
jd
RonnieT says
You can check with your library for some space or at your local panera/starbucks restaurant/coffee shop.
Most in our area are open to having groups meet…if your project is too big to take-a-long, it’s a perfect time/place for a smaller one to do during the gatherings.
Renee says
Hello from Montana…Ruffled Featherz Group…We have both…a knitting and crocheting group…There were 3 of us that started the evening knitting group at our local book store…2 are no longer there but I still keep it going…8 years now and we meet EVERY Tues evening…7 to 9. and one of the gals that came that first night prefered daytime…so she started a crochet group and during the day so we all meet EVERY Thurs morning at the same book store in the Starbucks Cafe…Some different gals and some night gals too…so we see each other twice a week…that’s been going on for 8 yrs also…we all love sharing, knitting, crocheting and most of all visiting… We, too, have stopped exchanging gifts…Ladies are always coming and going too…We hav lots and lots of teachers among us…it’s all great…I’v been doing both for many decades and hav always wanted a group of gals to knit or crochet with instead of always at home…now I have it…and there’s no sign of letting up either…Our age range is from mid 20’s to in the 80’s…we are even there on some holidays…if the store is open…we are there… just a bunch of die hard crafters… lol
We started a yahoo Groups also so we keep in contact during the week as well… it’s not all about knitting/crocheting we share alot of other information as well…It’s a private group only those that come there and want to be part of the internet info…
jd wolfe says
Renee,
So good to hear about a thriving crochet (and knitting) club! Your group sounds very similar to the St. Louis Crochet Club. I’m so happy to have this lovely group!
jd